Unfortunately, people that lack the
understanding of persons with disabilities cannot fully understand the concept
of being disable. And some children, like adults do not understand people with
disabilities, and they are viewed as helpless. But that is not the case, some
people with disability lives a functional life, and does very well. And some
people with disabilities live a functionally life, better than people without
disabilities. That is because, some people with disabilities has accept their
lives and are committed to live their life and are happy.
The church that I am member of has
an Easter program every Easter Sunday morning.
Anyone that wants to participate can read a poem, sing a song, or
partake in a skit. One particular Easter, a young man with a slight mental
disability that is also a member of the church, decided that he would sing a
song. Well, the other children in the church started laughing at the young man.
Although, their laughs were not very loud their gestures, faces, and body
languages were very much noticeable. The adults did not want to bring attention
to the children that were making fun of the young man, because he might would
get nervous, or he might would know that he was being laughed at; so the adults
just acknowledge the children that were laughing by looking straight at them
and they stop. When I was a child and I did something wrong, my mother gave me
that look.
In addition, when the young man
finished singing, the young lady that presided over the Easter program, spoke
highly of the young man, and he received a standing ovation. The message that
was received by the adult's response was that the young man could achieve his
goals no matter what obstacles he faces. I think that the adult response also
gave the young man some confidence; and no more what he should strive.
Derman-Sparks, L. & A. B. Task Force. (2012) states “all children are
harmed. On the one hand, struggling against bias that declares a person
inferior because of gender, race, ethnicity, or disability sucks energy from
and undercut a child's full development” (p. 1).
In this case, the children without a
disability also learn that because the young man or anyone that has a
disability is a message; being disable does not mean that disable people cannot
participate in activities while enjoying themselves. I think that it is easier
for a disable person to accept their disability than a person without a
disability to accept someone with a disability.
As an anti-bias educator it is
imperative that any child with a disability knows that he or she should strive
to reach his or her goal. But first the anti-bias educator needs to remove, if
any, bias from within. So, when a situation occurs, the educator will not have
difficulties dealing with the situation. Derman-Sparks & Edwards (2010)
states “understanding how young children construct their personal and social
identities, how they think about differences and absorb messages about
prejudice and social advantage or disadvantage, is the foundation of effective
anti-bias education” (p.11).
References
Derman-Sparks, L. & Edwards, J. O. (2010)
Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and Ourselves.
Children's Identifiably Development. Director Publications and Education Initiatives.